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Friday, November 9, 2018

Small Town Life and the World

I went to a potluck dinner for local small business people. It's the first time in a while since I've felt well enough to go out and socialize. It was great to see people again. There was a pretty good turn out.

One of the guys, a new resident to the area, happened to notice that some of us were related. He asked how many of us were. It turned out that just under half of the people there were related to me in some way. That's life in a small town.

My family on my father's side live mostly in one town still, with a few in neighboring towns. That gives me deep roots in local community life.

On my mother's side, I'm about the only one left anywhere near the old home town. There's a strong grouping at the other end of the state, but the rest are scattered all over. My lovely wife's family is also scattered across the country. About the only family left in her home town are in the graveyard.

My lovely wife and I have three daughters. One is local. Another lives in a neighboring state. Our youngest lives clear across the country. All of them have passports and have traveled to different countries.

For me, it's the best of both worlds. I know what it's like to have roots in an area. I also know what it's like in other parts of the country and the world. I've my tribe of family and friends close to me, where we are around to support each other. Through the rest of my family, I know what it's like to be a citizen of the world. That's good too, as it expands my knowledge and influences my views.

There are different ways of dealing with people from other regions and cultures. You can fear them because they are not like your people, or you may find the differences interesting. My attitude has always been the second part. Don't knock it, that's how I ended up with a lovely wife from a different state with a different religion from my own. Our 40th anniversary is next month, so I must still find her interesting.

Roots are good. There is a strength there. Being exposed to the rest of the world is also good. Everyone on this blue marble in space is trying to find the best ways to live. Some do a better job of it than others, for various reasons. Why not adopt best life practices from those who are living a happier life? Personally, I think it's a blessing that the world is more connected and communication is easier.



  1. In some ways yes, in some ways no.

  2. And then there are those of us who through misfortunes of war had their "tribe" scattered to the four winds. Thus were born continents away and are likely never to return. Dad was born in Holland, mom in Germany. Both arrived in Venezuela as children of WW2. I was born there. As a young teen I came to the US and have never gone back. A US citizen by choice, now having lived the majority of my life in Maine, I am for all intents and purposes from here. I am told scattered bits of my "tribe" are still around in Holland but I don't even speak dutch.

    1. It's even more important to have made a tribe if you weren't born into one. It can be tough out there.

      Well, there are good folks in Maine so you shouldn't be out in the cold.

  3. 40 years! Wow she is determined to make you the man of her dreams. :) Congratulations!!!!

  4. My wife and I have lived in four different states and I have visited almost all of the other states except for a very few. I have found people to be basically the same everywhere I have been.

    1. Most people want the same things in life. We aren't all that different.